I believe many people struggle with the same dilemma after graduating from high school. Many feel pressured to decide what they are going to do with the rest of their lives as if their entire lives will revolve around that decision. That is not necessarily the case. I have met several people that have changed their majors in college or that have changed jobs several times before they finally settled on something they were content with. Sometimes experience is the best teacher. We do not always know what we want until we figure out what it is we do not want. I guess what I am really trying to say is that it is OK to make mistakes as long as you learn from them.
Suggestion 1- Figure out what it is you want for yourself and not what others want for you.
This can be one of the most difficult things to decide for some people. It is imperative that you choose a path that is personally satisfying to you. There is a clear difference in the people that are employed doing something they really enjoy compared to those who dislike their jobs. The ones who are doing something they love actually look forward to their work and feel they are making a difference in the world. Those same people are usually much more productive because they are more motivated to do what it is they love. This in turn make their lives more satisfying. Life is too short to be stuck doing something that makes you miserable.
You can start the process of figuring out what you want by asking yourself these questions:
"What am I good at?"
"What are my natural gifts and talents?"
"What do I like to do in my free time?"
"What are the things that I definitely do not want to do?"
"What are the things that I feel I am not very good at?"
"What type of work would make me feel good about myself?"
"What type of work would make me feel as if I am giving back?"
"What kind of work environment would suit my personality type?"
More times than not, the people who are satisfied with their professions are those that have a genuine love for their work in combination with having some amount of natural ability to perform the job.
Suggestion 2- Set some goals.
Once you figure out what type of career you would like to pursue, the next logical step is to figure out how to get there. Setting some goals is one of the best ways to do that. You now need to ask yourself, "What is required to become whatever it is that I have chosen?" Does it require a college degree? Does it require experience in the field? Does it require training through a trade school? Find out the requirements and then come up with a plan to achieve those requirements.
Suggestion 3- Do what it takes to achieve your goals.
Figuring out what you want to do and actually following through with it are two very different things. Those that have the will to set goals and follow through in achieving them will always have a much better chance of getting what they want.
While deciding what you want to do and setting goals may seem like difficult tasks, following through with your plan will probably be the most difficult. Are you prepared to make the necessary sacrifices? Depending on what you choose to do, certain sacrifices might include; working and going to school simultaneously, sleeping less hours, socializing less, financial hardship and feeling stressed out or overburdened. Life is not easy and by default, neither is starting a career. If you have the drive and integrity to work for what you want, then you can make it happen. It will just take time, patience, hard work and sticking to a well thought out plan to make it come together.
In closing I would just like to say that there are many people that become successful by going to college and utilizing their degree. There are also people that do not reach any level of success by getting a college degree. There are also people that are extremely successful and satisfied that work in the trades and service industries. In the U.S., most people seem to be encouraged to attend college in order to find a good job. That is not always the best plan for each person. Every person is not suited for college. Some people make great livings by doing things that are not taught in colleges.
Going to college just to "go to college" will probably not do much good if there is not a plan in place for utilizing the degree. Asking yourself, "Will this degree help me to do what I want to do?" is a very useful and important question to ask. If a college degree will not assist you in attaining your goals then a different path should most likely be taken.
For more information on counI believe many people struggle with the same dilemma after graduating from high school. Many feel pressured to decide what they are going to do with the rest of their lives as if their entire lives will revolve around that decision. That is not necessarily the case. I have met several people that have changed their majors in college or that have changed jobs several times before they finally settled on something they were content with. Sometimes experience is the best teacher. We do not always know what we want until we figure out what it is we do not want. I guess what I am really trying to say is that it is OK to make mistakes as long as you learn from them.
Suggestion 1- Figure out what it is you want for yourself and not what others want for you.
This can be one of the most difficult things to decide for some people. It is imperative that you choose a path that is personally satisfying to you. There is a clear difference in the people that are employed doing something they really enjoy compared to those who dislike their jobs. The ones who are doing something they love actually look forward to their work and feel they are making a difference in the world. Those same people are usually much more productive because they are more motivated to do what it is they love. This in turn make their lives more satisfying. Life is too short to be stuck doing something that makes you miserable.
You can start the process of figuring out what you want by asking yourself these questions:
"What am I good at?"
"What are my natural gifts and talents?"
"What do I like to do in my free time?"
"What are the things that I definitely do not want to do?"
"What are the things that I feel I am not very good at?"
"What type of work would make me feel good about myself?"
"What type of work would make me feel as if I am giving back?"
"What kind of work environment would suit my personality type?"
More times than not, the people who are satisfied with their professions are those that have a genuine love for their work in combination with having some amount of natural ability to perform the job.
Suggestion 2- Set some goals.
Once you figure out what type of career you would like to pursue, the next logical step is to figure out how to get there. Setting some goals is one of the best ways to do that. You now need to ask yourself, "What is required to become whatever it is that I have chosen?" Does it require a college degree? Does it require experience in the field? Does it require training through a trade school? Find out the requirements and then come up with a plan to achieve those requirements.
Suggestion 3- Do what it takes to achieve your goals.
Figuring out what you want to do and actually following through with it are two very different things. Those that have the will to set goals and follow through in achieving them will always have a much better chance of getting what they want.
While deciding what you want to do and setting goals may seem like difficult tasks, following through with your plan will probably be the most difficult. Are you prepared to make the necessary sacrifices? Depending on what you choose to do, certain sacrifices might include; working and going to school simultaneously, sleeping less hours, socializing less, financial hardship and feeling stressed out or overburdened. Life is not easy and by default, neither is starting a career. If you have the drive and integrity to work for what you want, then you can make it happen. It will just take time, patience, hard work and sticking to a well thought out plan to make it come together.
In closing I would just like to say that there are many people that become successful by going to college and utilizing their degree. There are also people that do not reach any level of success by getting a college degree. There are also people that are extremely successful and satisfied that work in the trades and service industries. In the U.S., most people seem to be encouraged to attend college in order to find a good job. That is not always the best plan for each person. Every person is not suited for college. Some people make great livings by doing things that are not taught in colleges.
Going to college just to "go to college" will probably not do much good if there is not a plan in place for utilizing the degree. Asking yourself, "Will this degree help me to do what I want to do?" is a very useful and important question to ask. If a college degree will not assist you in attaining your goals then a different path should most likely be taken.
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